The last post discussed how making interesting plans in your life can step up your dating game and easily ask seemingly unavailable girls out.
The same concept applies here, but this is for when you go out and meet new girls.
I’ll start with a story of my own…
I was out at night doing some work, and when I finished up I went to a restaurant/bar in my neighborhood that has some really good butternut squash.
As soon as I enter, I noticed a foreign looking girl sitting at the bar with her friend and she was not shy with the eye contact.
The waitress showed me my table, I sat for a minute, and then got up and approached the girl.
I asked if shes American…nope, French.
Lights went off in the French-loving part of my brain.
Charmed her by spitting some French, then asked what she is doing later. She said she was just about to go home with her friend.
I told her to come stop by my table before she left and said said okay.
I went back to my table and ordered the butternut squash.
I watched her exchange words with her friend, glance over and smile a few times, and when her friend left, she came over to my table.
I invited her to sit and when she sat down and settled in, I spit game over the butternut squash.
I wasn’t getting the 100% vibe that she would go home with me right then and there, so I invited her to this freak-circus event they have every so often at a weird art gallery/bar in my neighborhood.
She agreed. On the way there I joked with her and said “isn’t this so much better than online dating?” And she laughed hard.
We watched the show and she said it was coolest thing she has done since coming to New York.
I made out with her there and knew it was on after that, its easy to extract a French girl after you have kissed her.
I fucked her so much that night she had trouble walking to the train in the morning.
The main point is that I knew that there was an interesting thing going on (even though I originally wasn’t planning on going) and had that to back up on.
It pays to do your research and know what types of events are going on in your area.
Even if you don’t live in a city like New York where there are hundreds of things happening every night of the week, you can still find interesting things to do in your area.
I grew up outside of the city and knew of a private lake that was up in the hills. I would take girls there with some beer and steal canoes and paddle around at night.
They fucking loved it.
One time, I was visiting family in North Carolina and we got drunk with some girls, drove around to farms and tried to tip cows.
Then we went to some local churches and I got out and rearranged the letters on the big signs out front to make them say “God loves stinky balls” and “Fuck Christ for freedom”.
That was one of the funniest nights of my life.
If you do some research, always have a plan, and be a person who knows how to make a good time happen, great things are going to come.
Girls absolutely love being led to adventure, their lives are usually dull and filled with gossip and TV.
You can be a man who can enrich their world.
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Video of the freak-circus: