Was still feeling the energy from Joshua Tree pretty strong inside as I headed out in to Hollywood last night.
A select few places had some people mingling, but it was pretty quiet around 9pm.
My dinner of steak tartare and oysters sat comfortably in my belly and I felt the potent nutrients enter my blood while prowling the streets.
It was easy to spot two dolled up leggy blondes walking together and I followed them to an upscale lounge where they entered.
I finished my cigarette and went in a few minutes later.
The hostess seated them at a table and as I passed I saw one of them look my way.
I pretended not to notice and posted at the bar and ordered a beer.
A minute later, four other dolled up girls entered and joined the two blondes.
After their cacophonous greetings, I glanced over with eyes ready to pierce and caught glances from all of them as they passed the bar on their way to the back room.
My camera was with me and I wanted to get an interview with a few LA girls while I was in town and thought this would be a good opportunity.
I went to the back room to use the bathroom and on the way back I passed the group again.
*Chose not to join because the girls had just started catching up together and were only on their first drink…this is not a good time to try and schmooze your way in. You should wait until they have shared new gossip and news, are a couple drinks in, bored with each other, and looking for some new action (doesn’t take too long).
As I passed, I caught one girls strong gaze, nodded at her with a smirk and very deliberately took out a cigarette so she would know I was on my way out to smoke.
I stepped outside, and almost on my count, she was out there on the sidewalk with me for a cigarette of her own.
I said “Excuse me darling, are you from here?” and asked her where some good places were on a Wednesday night.
We chatted for a bit and then I told her I was in town and doing some ‘research’ on the dating scene in LA.
I wanted to find out how guys and girls met each other out here and what makes a good approach.
She told me that what I did was perfect.
So I asked if I could get her reaction on film.
Took out the camera and filmed the following.
Things to note before watching:
- This girl was very in to me from the start and the video showcases all the signs of attraction. Pay attention to the eyes, lips, and high interest.
- This is also a prime example of a girl that I am not interested in. Too promiscuous for my blood, you can see it in her eyes, her attitude, and her overall lack of class. BUT…that doesn’t mean you can’t have a bit of fun.
- Her emphasis on eye contact is very telling. For me, I think its the most important part of interacting with other people and its definitely a strength of mine. She confirms this 100%
- Staying composed and in control is important. I went up to her and was polite, had a question in mind and made my intentions clear. You don’t have to be a goddamn clown to capture a girls interest. I’m baffled that my style of approaching is considered out of the ordinary. Again…I’m not a very good looking guy, but I do take care of my body and have a unique style (be sure to read about the importance of style and check out what NYC girls have to say about it)…anyone can do that if they choose.
- Her responses prove that girls notice a LOT of detail. She gathered a lot of information and came to some quick judgements from just a glance of the eyes and my presence inside the lounge. This is a game, we are animals, and its all very fascinating.
- It’s funny she doesn’t understand the player question…this girl is deep in to the scene, I wish her the best of luck in the future. heh
After the interview, I asked what she was up to. She told me about a Wednesday night party at Warwick, a club just around the corner, and I asked if I could join.
She said sure and we went in and she introduced me to her friends.
If you could imagine a poster shot of six girls getting ready for a big night out, this scene would have been perfect.
I charmed the girls and we went to Warwick and were let right in.
It was pretty fun, I’m not used to the high end club scene, bottle service, and so-loud-you-can’t-talk atmosphere, but the previous weekend with McQueen had primed me.
We went in, got drinks and immediately the blonde from the video was hanging on to me like a monkey clinging to a tree.
I laughed and danced with her for a bit, went to use the bathroom and saw many, many more beautiful girls.
This club really held the talent and whatever you would peg the blonde from the video at, she was on average 1.5 points lower than most of the other girls there.
I chatted up a bunch of other girls and around midnight the blonde found me again and was upset.
I told her sorry, I was here to meet people and didn’t have much time to spare. The look on her face was priceless.
The rest of the night was spent floating around the club spreading my mojo everywhere.
I didn’t click with any of the girls but it was still a fun time in a very different environment from what I am used to.
I’m at a point where I would much rather go home alone than with a girl I do not have a strong connection with.
This was one of those nights, and I woke up with my energy still in tact and ready to fuck the world.
Lets keep it going Los Angeles.
*I’ll be sure to take my camera out the rest of the times I go out…this stuff is interesting. What do you think? Comments below…