How did you get started learning about game?
Was it a broken heart, a frustrated night out, months of a dry spell, desperate to lose your virginity?
I imagine most guys come across sites like this because of a google search on the topic.
My foray into studying game started after a drunken, disheartening night out in Vegas when I couldn’t muster the balls to go up to any girls.
My buddy and I returned to our hotel room alone to smoke a blunt—after he passed out, I sheepishly opened my laptop and typed “how to pick up girls” into Google, found Neil Strauss’s book, ordered it on Amazon, and began the path to having the most freeing psychological journey of my life.
But it took that admission of fault, that recognition of weakness, that ounce of humility to start walking that path.
When I speak to guys about game and strategies they use to meet girls—most are completely clueless and know absolutely nothing.
And they suck with women.
There is the rare natural who knows innately what works and what doesn’t, but they are few and far between—and to be honest, those cats are pretty rigid and unteachable—if their shtick works, they have a very hard time branching out.
So what separates the future players from the future betas is the quality of humility.
On the surface, humility might seem like the opposite of confidence. And what does every guru preach? Confidence, confidence, confidence.
It’s because confidence is very powerful—and guess what—its easy to fake confidence for a little while. You might even get a ONS from a cute little slut if you can fake the confidence for a couple of hours.
But it will last only so long—that’s the reason females will continue to shit test you long into a relationship—they are only trying to see if your confidence is real or faked. They innately know this. I give girls credit for being so wily. Female game.
Faking humility is more disgusting than faking confidence—it’s fishing for compliments. Think of two hot girls exaggerating the others gaudy features “oh my god, your nails look sooooo amazing”, or two beta dorks asking each other if they know every technical fact associated with a product “does your phone have the assfuck5000 superlubebooster chip? It’s supposed to work wonders.”
Real humility is impossible to fake, without real humility a man cannot truly learn and apply the principles to real life.
Take a guy like Christian McQueen—who on the surface may come across as the most arrogant, cocky motherfucker on the planet—but read of post of his like this, and you will realize that the man has humility and uses it to his advantage.
It’s a controlled type of confidence that allows you to recognize your weaknesses, use your intelligence to learn from those more experienced, and become a better person.
So try to cultivate this much looked over, and looked down upon trait. It will make it easier to absorb wisdom from the experienced.