Asking a girl out can seem intimidating at times. There might be some social restraints if she is someone who you work with, in a circle of friends, or has a boyfriend.
There is a great way to isolate, seduce, and fuck women from those arenas.
And keep it on the down low…which is usually best in those circumstances.
First off, only do it only if you feel that the chick is digging you a bit, don’t waste your time, or ego, if the girl is not showing you some sign of interest.
Second, you need to have some kind of fun event coming up that is unique and the chick would be interested in. Different girls are drawn to different events, plan accordingly.
I’ve always been firmly plugged in to the music scene in NYC and used to keep tight tabs on the different shows and events going on around the city. This was usually my go-to ‘plan’ in the back of my head.
Other good things included: art shows, parties, bar openings (another favorite), burlesque, and late night circuses. Anything with a fun vibe where there would be drinking and liberation.
Start talking to your girl about whatever it is you usually talk about. Then steer the conversation over to this cool event that you are going to later that week.
Drum it up, get real excited, describe why its going to be a really good time.
Then, look at her, pause for a second, and say:
You know what, you would love it, you should come
(you can even pull that off when talking with her in front of a group, ain’t nothing wrong with sharing some fun with someone).
Its such a good way to get a girl out with you without ‘asking her out’. Be as nonchalant as you can about it and even if she says no, who cares, you are going to have fun anyway.
Most of the time the girl will agree to meet up with you, girls love fun and being led to cool events.
So when she gets there, enjoy your fucking self. Lift drinks, say cheers, get her involved in the event, laughing, and enjoying herself.
Music is always awesome because then you can sway with her and get a lot of touching in. You need to sexualize the situation as fast as you can so it doesn’t seem weird later on. The quicker the better so she at least has the thought in her head.
*Remember…if a girl is willing to spend some time alone with you somewhere she is definitely considering fucking you…you have to make it happen.*
I would always try to kiss at some point of peak excitement…I only had one girl break down and freak out (boyfriend guilt) but dozens of others were seduced like this.
If we didn’t kiss at the event, I had a back-up super sexy speakeasy bar that is really close to my apartment. I told them how awesome it was and how great the cocktails were. We would go there and if the chick didn’t do anything at that place…she wasn’t going to do anything at all.
I’ve digressed from this part of game because I’m such a goddamn direct bastard now that a girl knows I want to fuck her before I finish my first sentence.
But it was a great way to wean off the training wheels and fuck a bunch of girls I would have previously thought inaccessible.
*Did you know I have a twitter account? I do and I post a lot of crazy shit when I go out and get fucked up. Extra pics of girls too.
I also have a youtube account where there are plenty of videos that don’t get shown anywhere else.