If you have followed my blog this year, you know that I ended up meeting a girl who had contacted me after reading my books.
She came to visit, we spent a few days living together, raised some hell, had lots of sex, and separated on good terms.
While she was here we talked about doing some kind of project that involved retelling the experience through her lens. She happens to be a decent writer and storyteller so I was confident that she would deliver something worthwhile.
And she did.
This book, written entirely from her perspective, recounts the events that led up to her agreeing to fly 2,000 miles to come visit me in New York. It also describes how we interacted, what its like to live with me for three days, how she responded to my nighttime activities/coaching/partying, and her thoughts on what she thinks of my lifestyle.
It also contains a lengthily description of how she managed to identify the ‘real’ me from the Goldmund that writes stories about sexual conquests and tactics on this blog and in my books.
Everything I write about has been experienced first-hand and is true, but being creative non-fiction, it is told with flair and a tone of bravado–exactly how I like to remember events and stylize them for my storytelling.
I write with my Goldmund persona, but its not something that follows me 100% through my daily life. It would be impossible to form any meaningful relationships with girls if I was constantly acting like a maniac.
You get to see the other side of someone who walks around with the label ‘international playboy’, the side that is able to hook girls on an emotional level and form bonds with them.
Thats why I think its important to release this book.
It would have been something that I would have loved to read when I first began to study game and female psychology. Reading about feats of advanced players was so unbelievable when I first started that I never thought it would be possible to reach that level–and I always wondered about the other side of the story.
What were the girls thinking while interacting with a guy who knew how to handle them so well?
- How is it possible she would have sex with someone who was such an obvious player?
- Do girls really think a relationship with a man like that is possible?
- Is there any romance or real connection?
- Whats it like in the daylight hours after sex?
- What is the pillow talk like?
- How much of the ‘act’ is dropped without compromising beliefs or losing frame?
- How can she justify seeing someone like me when every single one of her friends warns her and hates everything I stand for?
All of those questions are answered and described in full throughout the story.
Its not like anything I have read before and it accurately captures what goes on inside a young American girls head as she becomes intrigued more and more by a man who lives freely and unbounded.
This isn’t a perfect story with a happy ending, and its actually pretty fucked up if you view it from the outside: her contacting me after I sent a few Tweets that meant to offend people, turning her on with some dirty messages, images of sex before she arrived, fucking right away, remaining aloof, getting ridiculously drunk, hitting on other girls, taking out anger/frustration on her, sharing some personal stories–and laughing the whole way through.
A twisted snapshot into modern romance.
You will enjoy it, especially if you are interested in attracting girls through lifestyle and find your ways to be unconventional.
It would be nice to tell C that this was a completely unique experience and we went through something very special together, but the truth is that this story has played out in my life many times over with many different girls.
It contains all the patterns and progression of a budding relationship and describes key moments when her fascination with me reached new peaks.
My response at the end of her story also includes six key tenets of game that have made my relationships with women successful and healthy.
Enjoy it and let me know what you think.
*It comes in .pdf format.