Do you ever find yourself walking around and you see an extremely attractive girl but don’t know what to say?
If you are like most men on the planet, the answer is going to be yes–it happens to me all the time.
Since I returned to New York from being on the road this summer, I’ve been using a new technique that has been wildly successful in starting up an exciting and fun conversation with a girl right from the start.
It does take some skill and involves a white lie, but its 100X more effective and honest than online dating.
The most useful class I ever took in college was Improv Acting. It taught me to express myself completely in the moment, get into character, and respond to other peoples emotions. Its come in handy throughout many life situations, and is especially useful with this technique. I highly suggest taking an acting class if you can, it is a great learning experience.
The way the Recognition Technique works is simple.
You see a girl you like and go up to her like you recognize her.
This has happened to us all before, when you are out roaming around, and you see someone you haven’t seen in a long time: an old friend, an ex-lover, a former classmate–anyone who you haven’t been familiar with in a while.
You know the look that goes on your face: a bright smile, raised eyebrows, maybe you point at them (I do), and say “Hey!” as you approach quickly.
Do this to the girl you want to talk to.
When she sees you coming and gets confused, you snap out of it and say “Oh, I thought you were someone else! You look just like a friend of mine.”
Since the girl is going to be attractive, she will be happy to know that you are friends with attractive girls and will feel comfortable right away.
Then you take the conversation wherever you want based on her reaction.
You can ask about her ethnicity, “Are you Colombian?” and how the resemblance to her and your ‘friend’ is uncanny.
I’ve done this at night on the street and on the subway, and have gotten girls to go on a date with me right then and there.
It’s also worked for me on the street during the daytime, and resulted in numbers that turned into dates.
I love it because it immediately sets up the basis for a conversation that is full of energy and is unique–you need to do this if you want to stand out in today’s world.
Cookie-cutter opening lines and boring conversations don’t work anymore, you have to make an impact on girls if you want them to remember you.
This is a great way to do it, plus its tons of fun–I love being mischievous and teasing people–the recognition technique is pure devilishness.
When I do get the girl on a date, I have more fun when I watch her reaction as I tell her that I didn’t really recognize her, but I couldn’t figure out anything to say–I’ve never had a bad reaction when the truth comes out–they actually like me more because its such a clever way to meet someone.
Try it out, especially if you are a Cad like me who enjoys bending the rules in order to get what you want.
This is a good example of an Advanced Game Technique.
I suggest buying it if you like this style, the tips in the quick and useful book are much more detailed and you won’t find advice like this anywhere else.
Get Advanced Game Techniques here.