When my 30th birthday came around a few years ago, it was a time for some serious self-reflection.
I had been studying game for a couple of years and was doing very well (75 in one year!). My girls at the time were mostly coming from the art/fashion world and a lot of them mentioned that I could dress better.
The problem was I had no idea where to start. I grew up in the skate/snowboard scene of the 1990’s and my nightlife included a lot of punk rock, indie, and underground shows.
You could say that my style was like a skater/punk rock/college student for a long time.
I cleaned up a bit in my 20s but my clothes didn’t fit right and I didn’t stand out at all.
It was time for a change.
I used this corner of the internet to find a few style blogs, some were ok, some had poor writing, some were too ‘fashion’ oriented, and some had unreasonable expectations.
Then I came across one where the writing was strong and spoke loudly to me, communicated intelligently, and drew me in the most:
I ate up the information in the blog, enjoyed Tanner’s stories and how they related to tried and true aspects of fashion, and really learned what a timeless look was all about.
I would recommend starting on his brilliant staples section–it will really let you know what should be a part of your wardrobe.
His blog provided a nice stepping stone and through it I could tell that he truly knew his shit. I decided to sign up for one of his personalized consultation services.
During the consultation, Tanner used photographs of me to determine what colors, textures, and styles would fit my look.
He even asked about my musical taste, where I went out at night, and what environments I operated in order to make his suggestions even more on point.
It was very in-depth and thorough. He set up a webpage just for my personal profile and suggestions.
Throughout the year he answered questions I asked about buying clothes for the different seasons.
Combine this new knowledge and my access to fashion oriented girls who went shopping with me and my makeover was a success.
I was getting compliments everywhere. Women at work noticed the change, girls were eyefucking me all the time, I was being approached by girls complimenting my clothes a lot, and my approaches were going 100x easier.
It changed my game completely for the better.
In most of the places I go, I am the best dressed guy in the room and this makes meeting women very easy.
Girls want to be approached by a well dressed man. Thats what they came out to do. They don’t want to be seen with slobs or guys in shirts that are a size too big.
A smartly dressed man shows that he pays attention to detail, can make good decisions, and has a healthy amount of self-respect.
Plus, when you are dressed well, you can get away with a lot more bad behavior…believe me on that…I’ve talked my way out of some situations that could have easily landed me in jail.
This is something that has truly changed my life for the better. I would encourage every man (and woman) to take a look in the mirror and recognize the areas they could improve.
Tanner is the only man I would recommend for consulting. He truly knows his stuff, takes his work seriously, and his service is worth more than he charges because it sticks with you for life.
I was in touch with Tanner recently and told him I was about to write a post on style and wanted to mention the influence of his service, and he offered to do an affiliate program with me. I’ve mentioned before that I take my words seriously and stand behind every one, so when I say that I recommend his coaching, I truly mean it.
Sharpen your eye for fashion, understand what works for your own personal style, and change your game overnight: do this by getting the right clothes for your body.
I can’t stress the importance of this anymore.