We live in a world where many people live a bulk of their lives through a screen.
Girls especially are drawn to shiny things that get their attention on the computer. I don’t need to go into how much attention whoring online adds to the addiction.
I’ve never been active on sites like myspace or facebook. If you want to get in touch with me, give me a call motherfucker, I’m busy doing actual things rather than clicking ‘like’.
If this sounds like a brag, it’s just to prove a point: nearly every time I talk to a girl for the first time she says something along the lines like “wow, you are one of the most interesting people I have ever met, where did you come from?”
I’m not the most interesting guy ever. When my grandfather tells a story, everyone within earshot listens intently. You want wisdom, you go to that man. I’m just a rapscallion who likes to live life fully and get his dick wet.
By avoiding things like social media sites, you can live in the present moment and not worry about what your friends will think when you post your pictures online. I cannot believe the amount of people who I encounter when traveling who are taking photos and going to places just to say that they were there. They aren’t really living and taking in the moment when doing something with the intention to post it online!
I’m not the world’s greatest player yet. I do feel some approach anxiety during the day and I fail a lot. But I do enjoy the failures.
When you date online, there is no learning from a rejection. Because you can’t fucking get rejected through a screen. That shit provides no learning curve.
In real life there is nothing you can do except put yourself out there, be the best you can be, and stay in the moment. Spending time on the computer won’t help you in those arenas. You hide behind a made up persona, don’t have to look a person in the eye when you type a response, and can go jerk off in between replies. That fucks you up, it doesn’t make you better.
I enjoy using the players forum online because it’s a group of like minded men who bounce ideas off each other and create insights. Everything else online is a waste of time to me. Read the classics, climb a mountain, ride a turtle–do anything that will get your spirit rising.
Maybe if you are brand new to game and you need some real interactions with girls–setting up an okfuckfish account is good to go on some dates and get some experience. Hell, years ago, before I knew anything at all about game, I got my first exposure to the sweet sweet feeling of feminine European pussy through couchsurfing–which is basically online dating.
But after that…I say go out into the world without having to rely on pixels.