This is something I have been experimenting with for a while now, it worked wonders on my trip around the United States, and its still providing excellent results.
And its simply beautiful in its effectiveness.
Most of the time when I go out I end up approaching a group of girls because its rare that they go out into the night alone. I’ve gotten to a point in coaching where I step up to the group and simply say “Hey girls, I’m out with a friend of mine and we are wondering whats a good way to approach girls without coming across as weird”.
This usually gets the ladies gaggling and excited. The ugly ones usually have the most to say and you can play along with it. Have fun with the conversation and get them laughing and riled up. *The key here is to have fun, bring the good energy and keep everyone charmed.
After a few minutes, pretend to notice the cute girl in the group for the first time and focus your attention on her. Give her a compliment “that sweater is cute, did your grandma make it?” Then when she says something slightly interesting you can focus all your attention on her. Make her feel it.
Look at her and say “you know what, I want to take you out on a date. How’s that sound?” If the vibe is right I have yet to have a girl say no and not give me her number. At this point, take out your phone in front of all her friends and say “put your number in there for me, we are going out sometime”. And let her punch in the digits.
Then you can say to the group “alright, me and your friend are going on our first date. Its over there at the other end of the bar”. And take the girl by the hand and lead her somewhere where you can be alone.
From there you can run smooth game and after your drink say “time for our second date, I know of a fantastic speakeasy not too far away”. And take her by the hand back to her friends.
Tell the group that you have had a great time on your first date and now its time for the second. At this point, its really up in the air if her friends are going to encourage you to leave with her or start with the cockblocking. The stronger your game was when you approached the group in the beginning, the more likely they will be alright with you taking her to the next spot.
There are a lot of variations to this, but the key element is telling the girl that you are ‘going on a date’. This makes them much more comfortable and minimizes any guilt for being slutty. Its not a One Night Stand to her anymore, she has already been on multiple dates with you.
*After our first ‘date’ I usually take the girl to say goodbye to my friends, put my arm around her and say “don’t we look good together?” This can be done with her friends as well and it works best on the weekends when everyone has been drinking hard.
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